After unanswered calls or messages
Offer a small, low-pressure sign of care rather than asking your child to explain their silence.
Alienated Parent Scripts Course
When your child has gone quiet, find the words for the next message: after unanswered texts, a refused visit, or in a note that asks for nothing back. For use when contact is allowed and safe.
- 5 modules
- 9 short lessons
- $7.95 one time
A focused resource, not a court-order class.
Created by Suzanne Dircks
M.A., LMHC · Certified Family Mediator
- 44 years
- helping families through custody
- 1,000+
- Guardian ad Litem investigations
Message examples for difficult moments with your child
The examples speak to your child, not to a co-parent, therapist, or attorney. They make room for a child’s feelings without trying to settle the relationship in one text.
When a visit is refused
Acknowledge what your child says without trying to settle every feeling in one exchange.
In a note or letter
Write encouragement that does not ask for a reply or place adult conflict on the child.
A message that leaves the door open.
This example appears under “If your child ignores you.” It is an option to adapt, not a prescription for every child or family.
If your child ignores you
“I just wanted you to know I’m thinking about you today. No pressure to respond. I love you and I’m always here.”
Use only when contact is allowed and safe. Follow any court order or safety plan.
Five modules and nine lessons
- 01
Module one
Understand that a child's distance can have more than one cause.
- 02
Scripts
Read parent-to-child script examples for different contact moments.
- 03
How to stay grounded emotionally while reaching out
Practice staying grounded before and after reaching out.
- 04
Bonus
Try a brief visualization and small daily actions.
See all 5 modules
- 05
Final words of encouragement
Close with guidance for keeping expectations realistic.
The certificate names this resource.
Complete the required lessons and confirm your legal name to download your certificate.
What it records
Completion of the Alienated Parent Scripts Course. It does not certify a full court-ordered curriculum.
What it doesn't do
It does not diagnose your family, assess why contact is difficult, or predict or guarantee a child's response. It does not replace counseling or legal advice.
Court orders and contact
These scripts do not replace a named court-ordered parenting class. If contact is restricted, follow your order rather than a sample message.
Sample certificate fields. Not valid for court use.
What this short resource includes
9 text lessons
Five modules to read at your own pace.
Parent-to-child scripts
Examples for different contact moments.
Completion record
For this focused resource, not a court-ordered class.
Frequently asked questions
Are these scripts for my child or my co-parent?
The scripts here are addressed to your child. This resource does not include scripts for co-parent messages, family therapy, or attorney documentation.
Will a script make my child respond?
No. A script cannot control another person's feelings or response. The examples help you choose steadier, lower-pressure words for contact that is appropriate and permitted.
What if a court order limits contact?
Follow the order and any safety plan. Do not send a suggested message if contact is restricted. Ask your attorney or the relevant professional what communication is allowed in your situation.
Is this the full Parental Alienation Course?
No. This is a short, scripts-first resource with five modules and nine lessons. The Parental Alienation Course is a separate, broader educational product. Neither course assesses your family or promises reconciliation.
Does it provide a certificate?
After you complete the required lessons and confirm your legal name, the course can issue a completion certificate. It records this short resource, not a full court-ordered parenting class or a finding about your child.
Start tonight. Your progress saves as you go.
Get the scripts · $7.95Read the examples, adapt with care, and let your child’s pace remain their own. Use only when contact is allowed and safe.
