Parallel Parenting Course

The parallel parenting course. Eleven modules for when co-parenting will not work.

Written by a licensed counselor with 44 years inside custody conflict. Self-paced, private, and built around the structure itself: contact, communication, exchanges, plans, boundaries, interference, and what your child needs over time.

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11 modules

Contact, communication, exchanges, plans, boundaries, interference, and stability.

8-10 hours

Self-paced access on phone, tablet, or computer.

Certificate on completion

Download it after successfully completing the course.

Court-acceptance guarantee

Full refund if your court does not accept the certificate.

What is in the course

The model, not a pep talk.

Each module explains why a structure exists, shows it in a real-feeling scenario, and ends with an assignment you apply to your own situation.

Scripts and protocols you can use tomorrow.

Written-communication rules, exchange routines, boundary language, and documentation that reads clean to an attorney or evaluator.

A certificate that says what you did.

It records that you completed the course. Use it with your attorney, your parenting plan materials, or your court packet.

What a lesson looks like

Eleven modules

  1. Understanding Parallel Parenting

    Why this model exists, who it is for, and why reducing adult contact can protect children.

  2. Why Reducing Conflict Matters More Than Cooperation

    What research and court practice show about children in high-conflict households.

  3. Letting Go of Control Without Letting Go of Your Child

    How to focus your energy on the household, records, and parenting choices you can control.

  4. Communication That Does Not Harm

    Email, app-based, and written protocols that reduce escalation and create a usable record.

  5. Transitions, Exchanges, and Emotional Safety

    How to structure handoffs so they become logistics instead of battlegrounds.

  6. Parallel Parenting Plans and Boundaries

    What belongs in a parallel parenting plan and how to describe boundaries clearly.

  7. School, Activities, and Outside Systems

    How to manage teachers, coaches, medical providers, and records when direct coordination is limited.

  8. Managing Interference and Power Struggles

    How to document violations, work with your attorney, and respond without feeding the conflict.

  9. When Children Resist or Refuse

    How to understand resistance without overreacting or putting more pressure on your child.

  10. Long-Term Outcomes and Emotional Resilience

    What children need over time when their parents cannot safely co-parent in the traditional way.

  11. Moving Forward With Stability and Confidence

    How to know when the structure is working and what would need to change before loosening it.

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Who wrote it

Suzanne Dircks, M.A., LMHC, is a licensed mental health counselor with 44 years of experience in child custody cases, over 1,000 Guardian ad Litem investigations, and a private practice in Tacoma specializing in families navigating separation.

This course reflects what she has seen children and courts need most when cooperation is no longer realistic: lower conflict, cleaner documentation, and steadier parenting.

Suzanne Dircks, M.A., LMHC

Suzanne Dircks, M.A., LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselor | Former Guardian ad Litem

The framework is practical enough for daily life and credible enough for parents working with attorneys, GALs, and evaluators.

Pay once. Course access does not expire.

  • All eleven modules, assignments, and scenarios
  • Course access does not expire, so you can return when the situation changes
  • Certificate on completion
  • Full refund if your court does not accept the certificate

One-time purchase

$89.95

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Frequently asked questions

Start with module one tonight.

Structure is the intervention. The course gives you the structure.

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